Also, there are homeopathic protocols that, with some advanced planning, allow adoptive mothers to lactate and provide breast milk for the baby once he or she is in her care.
Providing breast milk is one of the greatest gifts a mother can give her child as it provides for greater immune health, which leads to fewer infections and a lower tendency to develop allergies. In addition to the health benefits there are studies that show that children who are breast fed tend to have higher intelligence and are less likely to suffer from adult onset obesity and diabetes.
But the benefits of breastfeeding aren't just limited to the child; studies also show that mothers who breastfeed are less at risk for things like breast, ovarian and endomtiral cancers. In addition to the potential health benefits, it also triggers a hormone release which makes the uterus contract more quickly and reduces the postpartum bleeding time.
However, as with all options, there are potential difficulties that could stem from breastfeeding. The same studies that show the benefits of breastfeeding also show that breastfeeding strengthens the maternal bond, which may or may not be a benefit for your situation. For some, the benefits offered to the child are far greater than the emotional risks of becoming bonded, thus making the decision easy.
As with all decisions along this journey, you'll want to weigh the pros and cons of each decision and make the one that works best for your particular situation. An important thing to remember in all of this is that the decision is ultimately yours to make.
If you think that breastfeeding is something you might like to try, start by communicating with those involved in your pregnancy plan. While you're certainly not required to obtain approval to make parenting decisions for your child during your hospital stay, it's always a good idea to make sure everyone is on the same page. Communicating your desires with the potential adoptive family as well as the social worker you're working with will make for a much better transition. Also, it just may open a door for the potential adoptive mother to investigate the possibility of breastfeeding herself.
For more information, tips and guidance on breastfeeding your child, contact the lactation specialist at the hospital where you plan to give birth. If you're using a birthing center or are planning on a home birth, communicate your desires to your medical professional and he or she can point you in the right direction.