If you're unsure about terminating your pregnancy or you're interested in learning more about options other than adoption or parenting, you might consider researching the possibility of assigning guardianship to a friend or family member who is in a position to raise the child. Guardianship allows you to retain your parental rights, while ensuring that your child is in a home where he or she is having their needs met by a long-term caregiver.
Guardianship can be a helpful resource, if your overall goal is to re-establish yourself as your child’s parent and ultimately take on the responsibility of raising and nurturing. However, guardianship should not be used as a long-term solution to your unplanned pregnancy. Children deserve permanency and stability and guardianship. While a great short term solution to use while you establish your footing and prepare yourself to parent, it shouldn't be used as a method to avoid adoption if the long term goal is to have the child stay with the guardian for the foreseeable future.
In addition to the options above, there are a number of other options available to you depending on your currently situation. If you're worried or scared that you'll be faced with homelessness as a result of your pregnancy, there are resources out there that can help you. Also, if you struggle with addiction and worry about the impact this could have on your pregnancy and ultimately your baby, there are several programs available to help pregnant women overcome addiction and go on to make an informed decision about the future of their child.
Regardless of what decision you make regarding your pregnancy, it is important to take enough time to research all of your options and make an informed decision. You don't need to make a decision right away. Review your options, weigh the possibilities, and seek guidance from those who are experienced in helping women understand and make a decision that works best for them and their current situation.
For more information on resources and support services available in your area, you can visit the Adoption.com Professionals Directory. Almost all adoption professionals listed have information to help you during this difficult time.